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Coach Bennett holding A Man and the Affair

Coach Bennett is a behavioralist. Twenty-five years studying how people communicate, decide, and behave under pressure. Attachment. Avoidance. Judgment when the stakes are high.

None of it protected him from a three-year affair. He made every mistake in this guide. He spent $27,000 on marriage therapy that accomplished almost nothing. And he came out the other side measurably better than the man who walked in.

This is the guide he wishes had existed.

25+years studying behavior under pressure
$27kspent on therapy that did not work
16chapters plus the Field Notes workbook

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